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Is Chivalry Dying Among African American Men, or Is Feminist Black Women Killing It?

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Today, it's virtually impossible to count the number of Black women whom I've heard say, "I get more respect from other men than I do Black men." In fact, this same group of Black women claim that Black men today treat other women with more respect than they do their own women. As a result, the attitudes of multitudes of Black women have really changed concerning Black men over the past 40 plus years.

There was a time when Black women would "NEVER" praise other men over Black men for their treatment of them. However, that was then…this is now.

Though this chivalry issue (or the lack thereof), seems to be one-sided or one of the biggest complaints from Black women regarding Black men today, I truly believe chivalry as it pertains to the African American community is diminishing as a direct result of how....

I have a question: Why is it okay for African Americans to use the N-word but whites and Non-Blacks can't use the word, even as a term of endearment? Isn't it kind of bias to say that only some people can use the word to reference themselves, but others can not?

Doesn't this seem to be some type of unfair double-standard, or is it just plain modern-day ignorance on our part?

Why do we have to use the word in the first place when we have fought so hard for nearly a century to banned the word? I can remember reading an article about a "white" male who shouted "nigger" at an African American man in the street, who had to be cleared of "racial abuse" after a court agreed he was merely using the word in the form of "street slang" or as many African American people today would classify it as being....a term of endearment.

The "white" guy Christopher Jones, who claims he has "more African American friends than white friends," was....

Surely you must know that there's a very intense "war" going on today between multitudes of Black men and Black women. This is a long running war that has pit a very large number of Black women against Black men, and a very large number of Black men against Black women.

This is a brutal war that has for the most part manufactured a race of men and women who are suffering a great deal as a result of very sever mental, emotional and psychological scarring on both sides.

A war that we Black people could have and should have squashed a very long time ago, but distressingly, some brothas and sistahs today revel in fueling this very bitter, out of control, ever increasing gender war to the point of destroying the.....

Everyday Black men and Black women enter into relationships and marriages hoping for the very best, only to be astonished when they finally realize that the individual responsible for ruining their marriage or totally destroying their relationship was the man or woman in the mirror.

In just about every case, one or both individuals were totally unprepared for love….but neither of them had any idea that they or the individual they chose to espouse or enter into a relationship with wasn't ready for true love.

Today, there are hordes of Black men and Black women out here who are very selfish and very opportunistic, and who have absolutely NO clue as to what true love is. Due to this lack of knowledge, many of them are attempting to build solid relationships and or marriages on very weak foundations, such as; illicit sex, money, power, prestige and other material requirements where true love and commitment are unrequited. Unfortunately, it seems as though many of them today are NOT looking for a husband or a wife as much as they are looking for.....

Matthew 7:15

I know this topic will raise much controversy, but recently I was asked by quite a few religious (Black) men and women for my opinion concerning our youth, with regards to the above question....

"SHOULD HIP-HOP BE ALLOWED IN THE CHURCH?"

First of all, let me start by asking everyone a few simple questions.....

Many of you may be wondering - "Why are we still talking about slavery in 2013, 150 years after it was abolished way back in 1863?"

The reason is because unfortunately 400 years of slavery still has a debilitating effect upon the conscious minds of many Black men and women today to the point that it's very difficult for many of them to free their minds from all of the many negative and mentally scarring atrocities imposed on the Black race throughout slavery and beyond.

Today, the bodies of many Black men and women may be free but their minds are still enslaved despite the vocal expressions of the many "Black Pride" enthusiast such as myself and the many attempts to assert the positive contributions of Blacks to the development and improvement of today's modern society world-wide.

Here in the United States Black History Month is celebrated every February (which happens to be the shortest month of the year- LOL, go figure), highlighting the many positive contributions of Blacks to our modern society today as an effort to raise the consciousness, the awareness and to also help elevate the status of ALL African Americans. Many little-known Black History facts have been revealed in promoting Black History Month and have served as an inspiration to many. But the true question is: "Has it.......

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Sex in it's most illegal form is a major struggle for just about every culture on planet Earth today. However, the issue of sex, especially Casual and or Recreational Sex today is a major battlefield for most African Americans, with far too many explosives.

In today's society where moral values have ceased to have meaning, except for those individuals who are dubbed by the masses as being too old fashioned, square, socially disenfranchised, or just a plain old nerd - I would have to write an entire book to address the many issues of sexual addiction in its most illegal forms.
We cannot deny the fact that people and other cultures all over the world are struggling with "self-control", as it pertains to sex in it's most illegal forms.

But for now, I....